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Julie Cali
Oct 12, 20227 min read
John Doe v. the Feminists: Do NYC women only want to be "wined and dined" and not have kids?
My friend John says an under-discussed issue with NYC dating is women want to be “wined and dined” but don’t want to have kids. My view...


Julie Cali
Sep 28, 20224 min read
Motherhood: The Best Days of My Life, Truth or Fiction?
While I was at my son’s soccer practice, my gaze fixed on his tiny body maneuvering down the field, a friend called to tell me she was...


Julie Cali
Sep 8, 20227 min read
How do I tell my son his pancreas is dying and that type 1 diabetes is coming for him too?
When type 1 diabetes (T1D) came for my then four-year-old son, we didn’t know any better. It caught us off guard—he had lost a pound, he...


Julie Cali
Aug 30, 20223 min read
How Did We Make It Twenty Years?
I have been with my husband, Kevin, more days of my life than I have been without him. We met my first day of college, when I was bright...


Julie Cali
Aug 2, 20227 min read
Rewriting Our Love Story: How My Husband and I Elevated Our Marriage with a Writing Competition
“What’s for dinner?” my kids asked in unison, ten minutes after I fed them lunch. I ignored them, unsure of the answer, and continued...


Julie Cali
Jul 27, 20224 min read
You Can Love Your Children and Love Yourself
“OMG,” my sister says after I tell her my eleven-year-old son walked in on me in my undergarments. I pull the phone from my ear, as she...


Julie Cali
Jul 20, 20224 min read
A Letter to My Son Logan: You Will Never Be Too Old For Me to Hold Your Hand
From start to finish, it took three days and three solid hours to push you out of my body. With a fever setting in, sweat dripping from...


Julie Cali
May 3, 20225 min read
A Letter to My High School AP English Teacher
To My Dearest Teacher and Friend Mr. Perez, I first met you twenty-five years ago, when I was a youthful eager seventeen-year-old. I...


Julie Cali
Jun 18, 20215 min read
Father’s Day Once Your Father Dies
Two and a half years ago, my father died unexpectedly five days before Christmas. He was in El Salvador training for a bike race, riding...


Julie Cali
May 5, 20216 min read
Because she loved us and we loved her -- Margherita Gude Rogers 10/24/27 to 4/26/2021
My grandmother passed away on April 26th with my mother’s arms wrapped around her. Our whole family had surrounded her for days, rubbing...


Julie Cali
Apr 20, 20215 min read
My Husband Helped Get Me Through the Pandemic
Like most people, I drowned when the pandemic began. Trapped inside my house twenty-four hours a day with my adorable yet exuberant...


Julie Cali
Mar 29, 20215 min read
I’ve Always Known That Not All Superheros Wear Capes
With the pandemic, our medical community received so much love and support for taking the primary role in risking their lives to help...


Julie Cali
Mar 29, 20216 min read
Will They Ever Be the Same?
The days all run together. I selfishly long for a time when things will return to normal. When my mind will be free from the 24 hours...
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